Thank you for this level of authenticity. My father passed in 2010, and reconciling his unwillingness to be my dad beyond year 3 took several years. Your humility and acceptance is breathtaking. Wishing you rest this month!
Oh my goodness Bridget, thank you—so very much. Yes, I had to work through that part many moons ago. It is interesting the layers we carry. And the final one came upon his death. I am working on my certification as a hypnotist and my little accountability group I have have helped to uncover the rest so that I can come back full and larger than ever—confidently and comforting! I am sorry for the passing of your father and for not being apart of your life—his loss really! I think it has given you the strength today to take on the path you are on today—and to not give up on your son! ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story. It reminded me of a long-lost friend who also had an estranged father. However, when he passed away, she informed me, because a part of her was still connected to him somehow.
Hi Amal, thank you so much for reading and for dropping a comment. I can completely understand what your friend is going through. I felt a weird connection after he passed. I am working through that now.
Sending hugs, healing, and prayers. There are times we need to grieve the loss of never having the relationship our inner child wanted with a parent. That was me with my mom.
You gave me a lot to think about. I had somewhat similar circumstances with my Dad. But your circumstances were a lot worse than mine. I applaud you for doing all the “work”. Thank you for all your great insights. Hope you have a really good 2025! 🎆
Thank you Chris. And I appreciate you. I was really wrapped up in how I was treated -- and then I just thought it can't simply be me. Knowing how he treated others really help affirm that. It is really hard to let stuff go..but, once I did, things became much easier. I really hope. you can find the same for you. Thank you for reading! I feel honoured that my writing did what I was hoping it would do--reach one person-- you! So, thank. you!
Thank you Chris— I did not expect anyone to read my article or comment so, I appreciate you. I was not sure if I was going to post this at all SO, thank you.
Thank you for this level of authenticity. My father passed in 2010, and reconciling his unwillingness to be my dad beyond year 3 took several years. Your humility and acceptance is breathtaking. Wishing you rest this month!
Oh my goodness Bridget, thank you—so very much. Yes, I had to work through that part many moons ago. It is interesting the layers we carry. And the final one came upon his death. I am working on my certification as a hypnotist and my little accountability group I have have helped to uncover the rest so that I can come back full and larger than ever—confidently and comforting! I am sorry for the passing of your father and for not being apart of your life—his loss really! I think it has given you the strength today to take on the path you are on today—and to not give up on your son! ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story. It reminded me of a long-lost friend who also had an estranged father. However, when he passed away, she informed me, because a part of her was still connected to him somehow.
Hi Amal, thank you so much for reading and for dropping a comment. I can completely understand what your friend is going through. I felt a weird connection after he passed. I am working through that now.
wishing you the strength to heal 🧡 take your time, we won't run away and will be happy to see you once you are ready
Thank you Claudia. I appreciate you.
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Karen, I "see you" and feel your intentions.
Thank you Kathleen, I appreciate you taking the time to leave me note
Wishing you the best as you continue to heal and grow. Thank you for sharing your journey.
Thank you Lisa, I appreciate you taking the time to read my passage and for the lovely comment -- thank you!
Sending hugs, healing, and prayers. There are times we need to grieve the loss of never having the relationship our inner child wanted with a parent. That was me with my mom.
I am sorry that happened for you Pamela. Much love to you and thank you for your healing prayers and hugs! Much appreciated and I appreciate you
You gave me a lot to think about. I had somewhat similar circumstances with my Dad. But your circumstances were a lot worse than mine. I applaud you for doing all the “work”. Thank you for all your great insights. Hope you have a really good 2025! 🎆
Thank you Chris. And I appreciate you. I was really wrapped up in how I was treated -- and then I just thought it can't simply be me. Knowing how he treated others really help affirm that. It is really hard to let stuff go..but, once I did, things became much easier. I really hope. you can find the same for you. Thank you for reading! I feel honoured that my writing did what I was hoping it would do--reach one person-- you! So, thank. you!
Keep up the great work! 😎👻
Thank you Chris— I did not expect anyone to read my article or comment so, I appreciate you. I was not sure if I was going to post this at all SO, thank you.