Thank you for this level of authenticity. My father passed in 2010, and reconciling his unwillingness to be my dad beyond year 3 took several years. Your humility and acceptance is breathtaking. Wishing you rest this month!
Oh my goodness Bridget, thank you—so very much. Yes, I had to work through that part many moons ago. It is interesting the layers we carry. And the final one came upon his death. I am working on my certification as a hypnotist and my little accountability group I have have helped to uncover the rest so that I can come back full and larger than ever—confidently and comforting! I am sorry for the passing of your father and for not being apart of your life—his loss really! I think it has given you the strength today to take on the path you are on today—and to not give up on your son! ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story. It reminded me of a long-lost friend who also had an estranged father. However, when he passed away, she informed me, because a part of her was still connected to him somehow.
Hi Amal, thank you so much for reading and for dropping a comment. I can completely understand what your friend is going through. I felt a weird connection after he passed. I am working through that now.
Sending hugs, healing, and prayers. There are times we need to grieve the loss of never having the relationship our inner child wanted with a parent. That was me with my mom.
You gave me a lot to think about. I had somewhat similar circumstances with my Dad. But your circumstances were a lot worse than mine. I applaud you for doing all the “work”. Thank you for all your great insights. Hope you have a really good 2025! 🎆
Thank you Chris. And I appreciate you. I was really wrapped up in how I was treated -- and then I just thought it can't simply be me. Knowing how he treated others really help affirm that. It is really hard to let stuff go..but, once I did, things became much easier. I really hope. you can find the same for you. Thank you for reading! I feel honoured that my writing did what I was hoping it would do--reach one person-- you! So, thank. you!
Thank you Chris— I did not expect anyone to read my article or comment so, I appreciate you. I was not sure if I was going to post this at all SO, thank you.
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Thank you for this level of authenticity. My father passed in 2010, and reconciling his unwillingness to be my dad beyond year 3 took several years. Your humility and acceptance is breathtaking. Wishing you rest this month!
Oh my goodness Bridget, thank you—so very much. Yes, I had to work through that part many moons ago. It is interesting the layers we carry. And the final one came upon his death. I am working on my certification as a hypnotist and my little accountability group I have have helped to uncover the rest so that I can come back full and larger than ever—confidently and comforting! I am sorry for the passing of your father and for not being apart of your life—his loss really! I think it has given you the strength today to take on the path you are on today—and to not give up on your son! ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story. It reminded me of a long-lost friend who also had an estranged father. However, when he passed away, she informed me, because a part of her was still connected to him somehow.
Hi Amal, thank you so much for reading and for dropping a comment. I can completely understand what your friend is going through. I felt a weird connection after he passed. I am working through that now.
wishing you the strength to heal 🧡 take your time, we won't run away and will be happy to see you once you are ready
Thank you Claudia. I appreciate you.
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Karen, I "see you" and feel your intentions.
Thank you Kathleen, I appreciate you taking the time to leave me note
Wishing you the best as you continue to heal and grow. Thank you for sharing your journey.
Thank you Lisa, I appreciate you taking the time to read my passage and for the lovely comment -- thank you!
Sending hugs, healing, and prayers. There are times we need to grieve the loss of never having the relationship our inner child wanted with a parent. That was me with my mom.
I am sorry that happened for you Pamela. Much love to you and thank you for your healing prayers and hugs! Much appreciated and I appreciate you
You gave me a lot to think about. I had somewhat similar circumstances with my Dad. But your circumstances were a lot worse than mine. I applaud you for doing all the “work”. Thank you for all your great insights. Hope you have a really good 2025! 🎆
Thank you Chris. And I appreciate you. I was really wrapped up in how I was treated -- and then I just thought it can't simply be me. Knowing how he treated others really help affirm that. It is really hard to let stuff go..but, once I did, things became much easier. I really hope. you can find the same for you. Thank you for reading! I feel honoured that my writing did what I was hoping it would do--reach one person-- you! So, thank. you!
Keep up the great work! 😎👻
Thank you Chris— I did not expect anyone to read my article or comment so, I appreciate you. I was not sure if I was going to post this at all SO, thank you.